Saturday, November 18, 2017

Week 9 Blog

This weeks topic for the blog is Communication and Mutual Problem Solving, throughout this week I have been contemplating and pondering how a marriage or rielationship can only last because of proper communication. For the first couple months of my marriage, we were very new to this whole thing and we weren't really the best at communication and talking things out with each other to come to a solution and work things out. My wife is a very quiet and reserved person and it is sometimes very hard for her to express herself and share her feelings. We had a lot of trouble with the communicating and sharing with each other to solve problems and work out our problems and issues. It was a particular hard time when we had no idea as to what to say to each other, in these instances, we turned to the Lord and asked him what we should do and the steps we should take to solve these particular issues together with the Lord's help. Communication and solving problems is a key part of relationships and marriages and without those things, it will become a very tough time and experience and it won't always work out the way that you want it. During our first year of marriage, we both had trouble expressing ourselves and sharing our feelings, it was a very hard time and it was also a very trying time. We both had to learn how to not bottle up and build our feelings up inside and let them out in little bits of crazy and end up hurting those involved more and more, until we were both upset and yelling at each other and having an even bigger argument. Throughout these times, we learned to let our feelings out and we learned how to not keep our emotions inside and share them with those involved so that we can learn from these experiences and grow closer together.

Communication is a very important part of a marriage or relationship and without it, it can bring a lot of heartache and problems. A lack of communication can cause a lot of problems and issues within a relationship and without the communication, it can be hard to continue and can cause divorce or a break up in the relationship. I think that communication is a key part of a marriage and that no marriage will last or work without and can ultimately end in divorce. Divorce is never a fun thing so I make a suggestion to work things out and make communication a key part of your marriage or relationship or it will never work out the way you want. If a relationship or marriage does not have any communication or problems solving, then in these trying times, there will be no way to get through problems and work them out together so that things can be better.

Problem solving is a very important part of marriages or relationships and can allow those involved the opportunity to work together and become closer. Solving problems is also a very key part of marriages because without it, your relationship or marriage will also probably end in divorce too. I think that the ability to solve problems with allow the opportunity for a couple to become closer and experience these trying times together so that they can work together and solve these problems together. I think that the concept of problems solving is very important aspect of life and it can provide the opportunity for those involved to grow closer together so that we can all connect on a more personal level.

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