Week 12 Blog

This week's blog topic is Divorce, Remarriage and Aging Families: I really don't know a lot about this topic and cannot relate to this in any way possible. What I do know is that divorce is a very big thing or problems for others in this country. I cannot really relate to the topic of divorce because of the fact that I have not been divorced or even remarried. It is a very foreign topic to me but I will try my best to convey my limited knowledge about these topics. I hope that I can share any insights or things that I have learned and be able to enhance the life of someone and allow them the opportunity better their lives.

I know that the topic of divorce is a very sensitive and troubling topic for most, this specific topic can be a very emotional for some and bring back the hurt associated with such experiences. Divorce can be a very touchy thing to talk about and share feelings about it to others, those who are involved in these experiences have a lot of emotional and hard feelings for themselves and others involved. I know that there are a lot of people who have opinions about this topic and there are a lot of them that have some very scary and heart wrenching, traumatizing experiences that most of them wouldn't want to relive or talk about. They have a very hard time with talking about it or even reliving these moments in their minds, it can be a very tough time while their are discussing and sharing their experiences with others. There can be a lot of emotions and tears shed throughout these trying experiences and it can bring about many feelings that have either been forgotten or they have also been trying to forget these horrifying experiences.

Divorce is not always a hard or as horrifying experience for some, it can be because of other problems in the marriage or sometimes it can be infidelity. Divorce for some doesn't always have to be a bad thing, divorce in some marriages can be a good thing, it can be money, lack of communication, pornography or infidelity. There are many instances where divorces can be beneficial to some and it can the best thing for those involved and if there are children involved, it can also be more beneficial them too. For some in the divorce process, it can be a very relieving and exciting event. For some these experiences, it can be an event where the stress is lifted off the individuals and it can also be a very unnerving experience for most. There are a lot of good and bad reasons for divorce and these experiences can very relieving and liberating for most and it will allow them the opportunity to get out of these bad marriages or allow the opportunity for closure.

Another part of the topic that we discussed this week is the topic of remarriage. While some marriages end in divorce, it will sometimes allow those involved to get into new relationships and eventually they end up marrying again and they learn to love another person the way that they used to  love another. Remarriage can be like combining families or individuals that came out of different situations, whether it be an abusive relationship or just getting out of a bad situation. In instances like these it can involve the adopting of kids from their spouses previous marriage or it can also be a situation where one of the people involved takes on the name of Step dad or mom. Remarriage can bring a lot of people together and it can allow them to develop new friendships and new loves, it can be a very sacred and great experience when combining or blending families together.